“Love is the way messengers from the mystery tell us things.”
— Rumi
Based on the planetary interactions this month, here are four tips to enhance significant relationships and your love life this October!
Tip 1: Compromise.
Venus in Libra (September 29–October 23) can help create sweet togetherness. You can enhance the spirit of unity and support in your closest relationships by seeing things from another’s perspective. Give up a little of what you want personally to create happiness for someone special. See your partnership as an entity separate from the individuals within it, and do something to support the energy between you both.
Tip 2: Experiment.
In the first half of the month, Venus will connect with the dynamic square pattern between Uranus and Pluto. Try something new, break a dating or relationship habit and shake up all your dating or relationship routines. You may want extra freedom or become curious to try something exotic or different. Allow your partner the space to try something out of their comfort zone too. Change and variety add excitement.
There other two tips are ‘be generous’ and ‘double check details’ which you can read about via my article on astrology.com here.
EXTRA:
Chatting with a client recently about love, we discussed this idea that each of us can create a positive magnetic force in our loves (telling typo!) lives by focussing on what we love and enjoy, and on what gives us pleasure.
When you want love there are direct and indirect ways to try and attract it. A direct way might be through online dating or actively seeking blind dates. If you have love and want it to be better, giving rather than demanding is the key.
An indirect way to enhance the love in your life might be to sign up for an art, singing or writing class and let yourself enjoy some happy, inspired feelings more regularly. (You can insert time spent doing ANYTHING you enjoy here.)
If like attracts like, why not put as much joy in your heart as you can and let Cupid – and timing – take care of the rest?
So on that note, what are you doing to enhance the love in your life – directly or indirectly – this month?