

JESSICA ADAMS
Dating apps får astrologi så forkert. Solskilte viser ikke kompatibilitet. Hvad de dog viser, er den hemmelige, klassificerede information, som din date ikke viser med det samme. Hvad sker der egentlig i deres liv, og hvad er der lige sket med dem?
Astrologiske hemmeligheder og tricks til dating
Del 1 – Vædderen, Tyren, Tvillingerne, Kræften, Løven, Jomfruen, Vægten. Anden del – Skorpionen, Skytten, Stenbukken, Vandmanden, Fiskene – Næste uge.
Match? Tinder? Bumble? Der er så mange dating-apps derude (og så mange mennesker), at det kan være svært at vide, hvordan man skærer igennem støjen.
Folk henvender sig til stjernetegn for at hjælpe med kemi og kompatibilitet. Men her er nogle nyheder. Det virker ikke. Jeg har været astrolog, siden jeg begyndte min karriere hos ELLE og Vogue i mine tyvere, og det er aldrig virkede.
Solskilt til Solskilt siger intet om dine ægteskabsmuligheder, eller endda hvor længe et ægteskab kan vare.

Hvorfor solskilte ikke virker for kompatibilitet
Victoria Beckham er en Vædder. Hun giftede sig med en Tyr. Ingen match. Ingen.
Alligevel har Sir David Beckham og Lady Victoria Beckham været sammen i 27 år. Okay, han havde en påstået affære, og de har haft problemer med deres søn - men de er næsten tre årtier inde i et berømt partnerskab.
Som Vædderen skulle hun være sammen med en Løve eller Skytten. Som en Tyr skulle han være sammen med en Jomfru eller Stenbuk. I hvert fald hvis du tror på de trætte, gamle (helt forkerte) kompatibilitetsguider. Hvad med Kate og William? Hun er Stenbukken. Han er kræft. Modsatte tegn. Det er meningen, at de skal støde sammen. Nej. De er et hold. (Foto:Dreamstime).
Stadige par, forkerte tegn – hvad?
Hvad med Meghan og Harry? Løven og Jomfruen. Igen – ingen match. Bortset fra det er det.
Så hvad sker der egentlig med disse tegn, du håber på at date – og hvordan kan du vælge en person med omhu?
Tricket er, at det handler om, hvad de går igennem. Og hvad du går igennem. Og det er noget, der virkelig gør arbejde.
Trin et:Kend deres liv lige nu
Soltegnet (eller stjernetegn) er ikke nyttigt, når man skal finde ud af følelsesmæssig kemi eller seksuel kompatibilitet. Hvad det er fantastisk til, er dog at forstå, hvorfor nogen måske dater; hvad hans eller hendes prioriteter er – og hvad deres situation er.
Det er sådan noget, du ikke ser på astrologiprofilerne for Tinder, men jeg kan hurtigt vise dig præcis, hvad der foregår, hvis du kender personens tegn.
Jeg fører dig gennem dit skilt og hans eller hendes. Det, du gør her, er at læse deres 'vejr' eller deres nuværende livsklima. På den måde ved du, hvad du skal spørge dem om. (Og hvad skal man undgå). Jeg er sikker på, at du også vil genkende dig selv her.
Forresten, hvis du er Premium-medlem og har et spørgsmål om en dato, vil dit diagram dukke op, når du bruger sektionen Kommentarer. Hvis du fortæller mig deres tegn (det grundlæggende), kan jeg give dig nogle mulige astrologisvar, bare ved at bruge den information.

Vædderens dato i 2026
Han eller hun er et godt bud fra den 30. juni og frem, især hvis du ønsker børn, eller allerede har dem. Vædderen bliver tilbudt de største og bedste forældre- eller stedforældremuligheder i 12 år. (Og det kan være dig). Deres profil, fotografi og udseende (når de dater) kan forvirre dig. De er selv forvirrede. De viser dig ikke rigtig virkeligheden - så der kan for eksempel være et filtreret billede eller en skjul-min-skaldethed-kasket og så videre. Du vil ikke rigtig være ligeglad, medmindre du er helt overfladisk, men Vædderen gennemgår en forvirret profilcyklus. Det er det samme med, hvordan de sælger sig selv i forhold til deres navn, job og så videre. (Vær opmærksom på mere end lidt eskapisme fra deres side, når de viser dig deres emballage).
Vædderens date er nu også i en radikal forandringszone med deres bror, søster eller kusine. Det er kun lige begyndt, men hvis du vil have en dejlig, afslappende, behagelig aften - kan du måske undgå at spørge dem, om de har en søskende, f.eks. Eller fætre. Der sker for meget!
Venner er et andet følsomt emne. Og enhver gruppe, de er involveret i. Især sociale medier. Der foregår alle former for politik. Masser af magt- og kontrolproblemer. Det er intenst. Hvis du vil have en afslappet, sjov aften, vil du måske afvige fra den kurve. Dette gælder især fra den sidste uge af juli, hvor (afhængigt af deres alder) karma fra fortiden, for 18 eller 19 år siden, kommer tilbage. Hvis du beder om at møde deres venner, eller hvem deres bedste ven er, så vær opmærksom på det. Vædderen er i en kompliceret cyklus der.
Tyrens dato i 2026
Det handler om pengene, skat. Finansiering og fast ejendom, forretning eller velgørenhed, er centrale for Taurus-personen. Det er, hvordan de skinner, eller hvordan de føler sig så udsatte - så 'set'. Da Taurus nu befinder sig i den mest uforudsigelige, ustabile økonomiske cyklus i deres liv, vil du måske undgå alt for dyre restauranter eller barer. Selv rige Tyre gennemgår denne cyklus og bare at vide - at de ikke ved, hvad der kommer næste gang - kan påvirke, hvordan de har det med en dyr date. Hvad der dog virker, er dit hus eller din lejlighed. Vidste du det? Især hvis de kunne ende med to boliger, ikke ét (dit sted/mit sted) eller endda blive seriøse med kombineret fast ejendom.
Det ville ikke skade at fortælle dem om dit nabolag (hvis det er fristende) for eksempel. Eller vis dem et fotografi af den antikke stol, du lige har renoveret. Hvad skal man ikke tale om? Deres religion. Deres rådgiver. Deres mulige depression eller angst eller søvnløshed. Det er forvirrende for dem og for dig! Den anden store er arbejdspolitik. Eller universitets-/højskolekomplikationer. Eller ulønnet arbejdsintensitet. Dette har bygget op for dem i et stykke tid.
Deres familiekreds skal udvides og forbedres i 2026, 2027. Det er deres gode karma. Hvis der har været problemer med pårørende, vil de opklare, og hvis tingene grundlæggende er positive, vil der dukke nye babyer (f.eks.) eller for længst tabte grene af stamtræet op, eller nye svigerforældre og så videre. Så spørg om familien. Opmuntr dem med deres renoverings- eller omindretnings- eller ejendomsdrømme. Det er deres glade headspace.
Tvillingedatoen i 2026
Date en Tvilling i 2026? Deres bror, søster eller kusine er central for dem. Det kan være af alle mulige årsager, men du skal vide, at dette er et stort år for enten a) at løse problemer eller b) at tage en god ting og gøre den større; bedre. Tænk på Noel Gallagher og Liam. Det er en going concern, og du skal passe på det. Hvis det går længere med jer to, så tag en weekendtur. Korte rejser er heldige for dem nu. Hvad forvirrer dem? Sociale medier. Deres sociale liv. Deres venner. Alle grupper, klubber eller hold. De har ingen grænser der med nogen, så vær opmærksom på det (og alkohol eller stoffer vil gøre det hele endnu mere forvirrende).

Hvis han eller hun foreslår en fest med deres venner - skal du vide, at der kan være slørede linjer. Din Gemini-date vil også ændre hans eller hendes udseende mere end én gang til næste år. Hvorfor? Fordi de kan. De føler sig frie, gør det. Så hvis du starter med en blondine, kan du ende med en rødhåret. Curvy kan blive tynd. Den sidste kicker om Gemini-horoskopet er en udenlandsk involvering, eller et fremmed land i deres liv, eller en anden accent/nationalitet/sprog i deres verden. Det går dybt hos dem i øjeblikket. Det er komplekst, og det er meget udfordrende. Så hvis I to er fra forskellige kulturer? Nå, det kan faktisk være dig! Tvillingerne er ved at finde ud af, hvor magtfulde de er (eller hvor magtløse de er) via andre nationaliteter i 2026, så du skal vide det.
Kræftdatoen i 2026
Denne person handler absolut om pengene eller huset/lejligheden, løbende og før eller siden vil det komme op. Alle ved, at du ikke diskuterer indkomst eller fast ejendom på en første date, men tallene betyder virkelig noget for kræften i disse nuværende cyklusser. Deres bolig- eller ejendomsinvesteringer har altid betydning for dem alligevel (det er hvordan de skinner - eller ej). Men du dater nu en person, der ser ethvert seksuelt forhold som et økonomisk forhold, med dybe spørgsmål om, hvem der har overhånden, eller hvem der har kontrol. Faktisk kan de være kærester, fordi de slog op med nogen på grund af penge for nylig. Det andet sandsynlige scenario er, at et familiemedlem (måske en forælder eller søskende) har komplekse økonomiske eller juridiske papirer med sig i øjeblikket. Hvis du er kommet på det rigtige tidspunkt, kan du faktisk være deres indgang til at spare eller tjene penge inden 2027! De vil ikke spørge, men i deres hjerte har de brug for at vide det.
Din Cancer-date er også i en forvirrende karriere-, akademisk eller (ulønnet arbejde) fase, som ikke er helt reel. At prøve at fastlægge dette eller præcisere det, kan betyde, at du er der hele natten og forstår, hvad Kræften heller ikke helt forstår. Den anden ting, de sandsynligvis ikke fortæller dig, er, at der sker en enorm forandring indeni. Det kan være religion. Det kan være rådgivning eller deres drømme eller deres psykiske side. Det er privat og sker sandsynligvis alene, men det er ikke en stabil del af deres liv, som det plejede at være.
Hvis du er rigtig for dem, og de er rigtige for dig, så vil I to indgå en økonomisk og/eller fast ejendomsretlig forpligtelse over de næste 12 måneder. Det er faktisk kernen i det hele.
Løvedatoen i 2026
Denne person er single, fordi han eller hun gik igennem et dybt spørgsmål om magt og kontrol i deres sidste forhold. Indsatsen var høj, og det lykkedes ikke. Det pågældende partnerskab handlede om, hvem der havde kontrol; hvem gjorde ikke. Så. Spørg ikke om eksen, selvom Leo måske fortæller dig! Dette er en meget lang cyklus, så du skal sikre dig, at du ikke er en del af det næste komplekse forhold, da alle Leos bekymringer med empowerment (eller mangel på det) bliver udspillet med partnere i 2026, 2027.
Deres bedste bud er at være halvdelen af et power couple. Så hvis du kvalificerer dig (i er begge forskellige, men lige med hensyn til gennemslagskraft og indflydelse), vil du hurtigt finde ud af, at det er bestemt. Hvis vægten er skæv og ubalanceret, er dette dog ikke det. Karma fra 18-19 år før vil også sparke ind for Leo med partnerskab fra slutningen af juli. Dette er selvfølgelig aldersafhængigt, men ældre løver kan opleve, at fortiden kommer tilbage på en eller anden måde. Et gentaget tema, som minder dem om, at de aldrig rigtig fik en afslutning for alle de år siden.
Hvis du er udenlandsk, eller fra en anden kulturel baggrund, vil Leo i al hemmelighed zoome ind på det. Han eller hun gennemgår en cyklus, hvor et andet sprog, accent eller nationalitet (du er ikke født her, eller dine forældre var det ikke) er en ekstrem stor sag. Den cyklus er en tredobbelt Væddertransit i det niende hus, og det sker kun én gang i deres liv.
Jomfru-datoen i 2026
Åh, karmaen fra fortiden! Heldigvis for dig, dating Jomfru, slutter det i den sidste uge af juli. Indtil da fortsætter de med at gå rundt i cirkler med deres partnere, høre det samme og se det samme. Hvis du dukker op i deres liv fra slutningen af juli, repræsenterer du måske endda den forandring, de har søgt. Hvad der skete med dem med partnere (hvis de er i den rigtige alder) for 18-19 år siden, følger dem stadig rundt. I hvert fald i de næste par uger.
Den anden store sag i deres liv er deres fjerne fortid. Mellem 2008 og 2024 forvandlede deres forhold, deres dates, deres graviditeter, deres børn, andres børn (stedbørn) dem. Jomfruen gennemgik dybe, livsændrende oplevelser som forælder, eller endda bare som elsker, da de skulle stå over for klassiske Pluto-cyklusspørgsmål. Havde de nogen magt i situationen? Havde de givet deres magt væk? Havde de kontrol? Hvis ikke, hvem der faktisk havde kontrollen, og så videre...Tip. De vil privat gerne fortælle dig alt om den sidste person, eller den næstsidste person og holde det tilbage. Indtil de stoler på dig.
2026, 2027 bliver terapeutisk for dem. De vil få gavn af en rådgiver, eller religion, eller Tarot, eller spiritualitet, eller meditation, eller bare ved at være alene. Måske hænger det også sammen med dine interesser. Hvis det er tilfældet, er du på en god ting.

Vægtens dato i 2026
Uplanlagt, uønsket graviditet er en risiko for Vægten på denne lange cyklus, så vær opmærksom på det. Bær måske kondomer på dine kondomer. Af alle de 12 tegn er de mest tilbøjelige til at ændre hele deres liv, ved at blive forældre eller stedforældre, i 2026, 2027 og derefter. Det vil ikke bare være at 'få en baby' eller 'at være mor/far' - det vil fuldstændig transformere deres eksistens. Måske fordi det er en så intens del af deres skæbne, langt efter 2030, er du nødt til at forstå, hvorfor de har børn, hvis de vil have dem, hvordan de har det med børn, de har - og dine egne afkom. Måske ikke på den første date, men det må dukke op før eller siden. Deres vej til magt, eller ikke at føle sig som om de har magt, er den beslutning, de træffer om forældreskab, fra juli 2026. Faktisk er det karmisk.
Det, der fungerer smukt for Libra i 2026, 2027, er deres sociale liv. Deres klubber, hold, bands, grupper, foreninger, politiske partier, velgørende organisationer, kor og så videre. Banden. Hvis du allerede er en ven, kan du være så meget mere. Hvis du deler venner eller er glad for at gå sammen med hans/hendes venner, er det en voksende bekymring og en løbende bekymring.
Partnerskabszonen i deres diagram er forvirret og forvirrende. Ingen grænser. Dette kan være deres eks, så du skal absolut være klar over linjer, der ikke kan krydses. Hvis du føler, at du har uklare grænser med Libra selv efter en første date, så hold alkohol eller stoffer ude af det. Neptuns cyklusser er mere rodet med stoffer. Og Vægten har Neptun i sin partnerskabszone i lang tid. Saturn er der indtil 2028. Så at holde det ægte og så klart som muligt, så ofte som muligt, er en god idé. Find det anker. Kend disse flag.
Del 2 – Skorpionen, Skytten, Stenbukken, Vandmanden, Fiskene – vises i næste uge.

Jessica Adams
Jessica Adams BA er forfatter til #1 Amazon USA og Australien bestseller Your Birthday med Rachel Wells. Hun er også rådgivende astrolog på The Aries Billionaire (Audible UK) med Wells. Jessica er vært for The Astrology Show, en #1 spiritualitetspodcast i Storbritannien og Australien.
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Dating apps får astrologi så forkert. Solskilte viser ikke kompatibilitet. Hvad de dog viser, er den hemmelige, klassificerede information, som din date ikke viser med det samme. Hvad sker der egentlig i deres liv, og hvad er der lige sket med dem?
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Kære Jessica, jeg er en fisk og nu single i mange år. De sidste år, min datter boede hos mig, skilte jeg mig fra min sidste partner og har aldrig siden mødt nogen, som jeg kunne lære at kende. Jeg havde så travlt med at prøve at blive i et job og uddanne mig ved siden af jobbet. Tror du, jeg har en chance for i det mindste at få en ven
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Jeg er bange for, at du ikke er logget ind, så jeg kan ikke se dit fødselshoroskop. Brug Tarot og I Ching på min hjemmeside for at give dig selv en dobbelt læsning. Vi er alle på vej (hele planeten) til 12 måneder af Jupiter i Løven, startende den 30. juni, hvilket er en bølge af nye muligheder for at date og parre sig, og også løfte situationen med/for børn. Du eller måske din næste nære ven kvalificerer sig. Til kortene skal du gå (følg trinene).
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Jeg er en Cancer Sun. Der er en fastlåst familieøkonomisk situation, der involverer en ældre slægtning. Det familiemedlem, der administrerer det, er en kræftsygdom. Min Leo-partner forsøger at få klarhed, men bliver ved med at ramme vægge. Er der et tidspunkt i år, hvor denne form for dynamisk skifter eller åbner?
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Du er heldig at forfølge dette med en anden Cancer Sun-person. Spørgsmålet om magt og kontrol med den ældre pårørende og økonomien er ubestrideligt, men der vil være et kompromis i sidste ende, mere sandsynligt i juli-august 2026 og derefter januar-februar 2027. Du og den anden kræftpatient er også i den velkendte problemløsningscyklus Jupiter i Andet Hus, som begynder i midten af 30. juni næste år. Leo-partneren er ude af den fastlåste, gentagne, økonomiske situation eller ejendomssituation i den sidste uge af juli.
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Så ærgerligt, at jeg ikke var logget ind. Men jeg kan måske spørge om noget, når det handler om mig selv er jeg usikker på, hvad jeg skal spørge om i Tarot osv.. Jeg vælger altid intuitivt hvilket "system", og det varierer mellem dem, du tilbyder. Hvis mit spørgsmål nu handler om et venskab/forhold eller som du siger unge mennesker (måske et nært familiemedlem) går jeg ud fra, at der er en hindring. Skal jeg spørge, om der er en forhindring, og i næste trin, kan jeg løse forhindringen, og hvordan kan jeg løse den? På forhånd tak og endnu en anmodning, kan du ikke stille et sværmspørgsmål igen om lidt, jeg elsker det når du gør det
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Du er en solfisk med et vandmandsstellium, der er bygget til venskab og gruppen. Det er den du er. Det handler ikke så meget om tunge, intense, seksuelle og økonomiske partnerskaber med sine forældre, dine forældre, begge dine børn og så videre. Det er ikke dig. Det er heller ikke et forbrugende partnerskab, hvor du er defineret af din anden halvdel. Det, du faktisk er her for at gøre, er at forstå, hvad det er at være en sand ven og også have en sand ven. Grupper, klubber, hold, sociale medier, fællesskaber, velgørende organisationer, foreninger, foreninger af enhver art er din jagtplads der. Sex og penge er langt bagefter, ligesom et hus eller en lejlighed. Men i de næste 20 år for dig er en allieret så potent.
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Som en Væddersol har jeg været i et 'situationship' med en Solmand fra Vandmanden. Jeg har stærke følelser for ham, men det føles som om alt går imod os. Han bor i Storbritannien og jeg i Europa. Desværre ødelagde Brexit min chance for bare at pakke kufferten og flytte dertil. Også min Saturn er i Vandmanden, og jeg føler en stærk forbindelse der. Der er sådan en gnist mellem os, noget jeg ikke har følt før! Jeg har taget frem og tilbage til Storbritannien og planlægger at se ham igen i juli. Men siden jeg kom hjem, har jeg beskæftiget mig med sorg og hjertesorg. Jeg har ikke følt mig så trist og næsten deprimeret i meget lang tid. Jeg håber, at denne tyngde snart vil løfte sig. Dine horoskoper og forudsigelser gør mig håbefuld for fremtiden. Tak fordi du skriver!
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Tak. Du er ikke logget ind, så jeg kan ikke se dit horoskop. Det er bedst at bruge Tarot og I Ching på min side, som er gratis. Hans aktuelle problem er at være far (eller ej) og have et frit, uafhængigt liv med eller uden afkom (dit eller andres).
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Hej Jessica,
Kan du fortælle mig, om jeg vil have held med at finde et langsigtet forhold i den nærmeste fremtid? Jeg har været single i årevis efter min skilsmisse.. Jeg er på alle apps, og der bliver aldrig noget ud af det!
Med venlig hilsen
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Hvor frustrerende. Jeg kan ikke se et diagram her, så jeg kan ikke hjælpe dig med astrologien, da du ikke er logget ind. En rigtig god vej ind i forhold, singleliv og så videre, er at bruge Tarot og I Ching på min side (gratis) til at give dig selv en dobbeltlæsning. Spørg ’Hvad er overskrifterne i mit liv nu?’, og hvis det er korrekt, fortsæt. Spørg 'Hvad er den vigtigste grund til, at jeg ikke er i et forhold?', så spørg 'Hvad/hvem er mit bedste bud på et godt forhold inden for 12 måneder?' Du kan stille flere spørgsmål omkring disse grundlæggende spørgsmål.
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Kære Jessica,
Jeg er Tyren, skilt 2008, vil jeg nogensinde møde en ny mand at elske?
Tak, Jaana
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Ja, Jaana, du sidder fast i en tilbagevendende, gentagne situation med dating i øjeblikket, som slutter i den sidste uge af juli, hvor sydknuden forlader Jomfruen og dit femte frierihus og soveværelset. Du vil have dine bedste datingchancer om 12 år, startende medio 2027, hvilket fører dig til midten af 2028 med Jupiter i Jomfruen med et højdepunkt i august, september 2027, når cyklussen starter.
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Hej Jessica,
Dette kommer på det absolut perfekte tidspunkt for mig. Jeg er enke på 4 år, og i løbet af de sidste seks måneder begyndte jeg langsom konsekvent kontakt med en ven af min mand, hvis forlovelse brød for omkring 12 måneder siden. Han var i en dyb sorg, og jeg kom ud af mit eget chok. Jeg ledte ikke efter et forhold. Vi mødtes en gang imellem i september og derefter oktober til et måltid eller en kop kaffe eller en gåtur. Det var et blidt, langsomt brændende venskab med sjove indtjekninger med nogle få ugers mellemrum. Han kom til min søns 14 års fødselsdagsfest. Han læste tarotkort og tilbød at læse dem for min søn som fødselsdagsgave. Så den 18. marts var vi til koncert, og vores kemi klikkede. Det var som om en spændetrøje gik af, og vi begyndte at ses hver uge. Det var surrealistisk og sjovt.
Ved sin forfølgelse og sin beroligelse ønskede han at date. Jeg gik kun med, hvis vi ville tage det langsomt og forsigtigt kyssede på forårsjævndøgn. Ved Beltane den 1. maj sagde han, at han ikke var klar til en følelsesmæssig forbindelse og lukkede ned for sin kommunikation med mig. I betragtning af vores delte historie og sårbarhed fører dette mig tilbage til gamle vedhæftede filer. Jeg troede, at de var på vej mod et ægte kærlighedsforhold. Nu føler jeg en dyb sorg over tabet af vores venskab. Hvad kan du fortælle mig om denne oplevelse og om fremtiden?
Oplysninger om hans fødselshoroskop:23/9/1976 Født kl. 04:50 Genève, Schweiz
Venligst tak.
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Sandheden er nogle gange mærkeligere end fiktion (og jeg plejede at skrive chick lit for Penguin!) Du mistede din mand; hans ven fandt dig; han blev udskældt (eller forkælet sin forlovede), og han læser også Tarot. For bare et par dage siden holdt han op med at kommunikere, hvilket jeg er meget ked af. Han har uden tvivl selv læst, hvad du og din søn angår, og noget han så i kortene fik ham til at stoppe. Du havde et langsomt forbrændt venskab og kemi, så det må være meget trist for dig, at dette er blevet stoppet. Den gode nyhed er, at du er en solløve-kvinde med en løve-stellium i dit femte hus med frieri, seng og børn. Fra den 30. juni flytter Jupiter ind i Løven, og du vil se udbredte og win-win-resultater. Du vil også se langt mere tilfredsstillende belønninger, seksuelt. Din søn er også i hjertet af længe ventet ekspansion og vækst for dig. Han kan komme tilbage. Det kan han ikke. Hvis han ikke gør det, vil en overlegen erstatning dukke op mellem slutningen af juni 2026 og midten af 2027. Jupiter, der går over 7, 8, 9 grader af Løven (og derefter Sydknuden, der går over 7, 8, 9 grader af Løven) tyder på, at der sker meget på kort tid; mine øjne ville være på august i år.
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Kære Jessica
Jeg er en kræftsol Libra måne Skorpionen stiger. Jeg har været enke siden 1. marts 2016. For tre år siden blev jeg præsenteret for en Libra sun gentleman .Vi har været kærester og er blevet tætte. Vil vi giftes?-
Det handler i virkeligheden om pengene, huset eller lejligheden og tallene. Det er ikke særlig romantisk, men det er det, det hele kommer tilbage til, især i juli og august 2026 og så igen i januar og februar 2027. Der er ret dybe spørgsmål her om, hvordan magten ville være afbalanceret, hvis du skulle slå kræfterne sammen økonomisk eller med fast ejendom; der er store spørgsmål her om, hvem eller hvad der har kontrol, hvis dette fortsætter til ægteskab eller endda de facto partnerskab. Dette er tilfældet i mange år ud i fremtiden for dig. For ham er det ens. Ud over nærheden og den åbenlyse attraktion bringer spørgsmålet om penge og ejendom en masse udfordringer med sig, især efter 2028, hvor Saturn skifter tegn.
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Kære Jessica
Jeg ved ærligt talt ikke, hvordan du formår at besvare så mange af vores spørgsmål i kommentarfeltet, men jeg takker dig! Selvom det ikke er mit eget spørgsmål, lærer jeg altid så meget af at læse dine svar til andre.Jeg har for nylig fået et spørgsmål besvaret af dig, så fair fair, og jeg vil forstå, hvis dette spørgsmål ikke bliver besvaret, da jeg er sikker på, at du har tusindvis af andre, der venter.
Jeg er en Sun Leo fra 1982, og hvordan du har beskrevet det seneste forhold, der slutter for Leo, er helt korrekt. Jeg har nu en vandmand mand i min daglige cirkel, og vi har en meget tydelig tiltrækning til hinanden, men det går meget langsomt. Han er lidt yngre end mig, og jeg får en fornemmelse af, at han enten er tøvende eller nervøs. Du fortalte mig for nylig i et tidligere indlæg, at jeg sagtens kunne have sex med ham, og at han er indstillet på at overraske sig selv (jeg har to børn, og han har ingen, så jeg forestiller mig, at jeg ikke er hans sædvanlige "type")
Jeg håbede gennem dette indlæg i dag, at du måske kunne udvide denne mulighed. Da jeg mødte ham i august sidste år, følte jeg en øjeblikkelig følelse af anerkendelse af, at denne mand på en eller anden måde ville være en del af min fremtid, men så taler jeg nogle gange mig selv fra det og troede, at jeg bare forestiller mig en fantasi.
Jeg har et meget tilfredsstillende liv med mange hobbyer, udendørs eventyr, rejser osv. Når det er sagt, så er mit dybeste ønske at møde en mand, der tydeligt træder frem og vælger mig.
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Tak. Jeg lærte at strække tiden for mange år siden sammen med min veninde Jane Teresa Anderson, som er uddannet videnskabsmand, men også drømmecoach. Så det er nemt nok at sætte sig ned med en kop te og svare på spørgsmål. Tak fordi du bekræftede den psykiske astrologi. Vandmanden har store problemer med at være far (eller ej), som begyndte for et par dage siden og vil fortsætte i årevis. Derfor tøven. Dine to børn er grunden til, at han bevæger sig langsomt. Der vil være store spørgsmål der om hans uafhængighed i den situation; hvor meget frihed og plads han har, givet at du er forælder. Han er bestemt klar til et stort nyt partnerskab efter udgangen af juni. Du håber, det bliver dig. Bundlinjen for ham vil være faderskab, ja eller nej, og han kan hugge og ændre sig til 2027.
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Goddag Jessica
Jeg er en sol-leo. det er rigtigt, at jeg har haft magtforhold til mænd, der ligesom mig havde dominerende mødre. Jeg er i terapi om dette.
Jeg trak tarotkort Page of Wands med Ace of Cups. Jeg kan lugte dominans fra mænd og kvinder.
Jeg holder meget for mig selv. fortæl mig venligst, hvordan disse kort kan vejlede mig eller fortælle mig? Pauline-
Tak Pauline. Det afhænger virkelig af, hvad dit spørgsmål var, og hvad din tidsramme var. Spurgte du om dit næste forhold? Det bliver med en meget yngre date, som er fanget med planer og ideer og lever i hovedet. En god yderligere information er, at denne person er kompatibel med en gruppe, social cirkel eller et fællesskab af venner, og det er den åndelige og følelsesmæssige gave, der bliver ved med at give.
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Hej Jessica, undskylder for ikke at være logget ind. Kan du fortælle mig, om der er nogen chance for et nyt forhold forude for mig? Jeg har været single i en del år og skilt i fem år. Jeg er på alle apps, og der kommer aldrig noget ud af det
Med venlig hilsen
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Tak Lucy. Du er en Sun Taurus kvinde med Taurus, Aries og Scorpio stelliums. Der vil altid være stor forskel på dit livsbudget og enhver partners. Taurus dukker op som dine egne penge, hus eller lejlighed, værdier (især dine værdier) og hvem/hvad der er så værdifuldt for dig, det er uvurderligt. Alligevel er der meget sandsynligt med din tidligere mand, og helt sikkert med partnere i fremtiden, en stor kløft med den anden persons synspunkt; deres egen bankkonto, fast ejendom og så videre. Du fik Uranus i Tyren til at understrege, at 2018-2026 og næste gang vil Chiron og derefter Saturn i Tyren igen understrege forskellen mellem din tilgang til finansiering og en partners. En nem udvej er ikke at tage dertil! Med andre ord at føre separate regnskaber, separate ejendomme og så videre. Du har også været i en temmelig fastlåst, gentagne cyklus med dating. Det slutter i den sidste uge af juli. Medio 2027 til medio 2028 giver dig dine bedste muligheder i 12 år for at finde mere af det, du vil have, i soveværelset, og blive meget mere opfyldt som f.eks. en potentiel stedmor. You don’t say if you have children, but if you do, that period is also about overdue improvement in the parent-child relationship. Later on, Jupiter (the planet we like to see) goes into Scorpio and your Seventh House of commitment, in your solar chart, and in your natal chart, your Eighth House of financial or real estate commitments. So that’s mid 2029 to mid 2030. That’s when hopefully you will have done all the groundwork and resolved all the issues about his money/my money and my home/his home and my values/his values. Your luck is in then but you are heading for some familiar questions there, so the time to figure it all out is now through early 2029, before a relationship either becomes serious, or you find somebody new, with whom there are far deeper questions about the practical and financial side of being together. I hope that helps.
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Hi Jessica,
What you write about Cancer is so spot on that left me completely speechless.
I am a cancer sun and cancer stellium and single for many years, with some failed dating attempts. How does it look for me the perspective of a long term relationship?Many thanks
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Thank you, that’s kind of you to say. Starting with your solar chart as a Sun Cancer, you are in line for a commitment based on real estate and money, with major questions about sharing the power, as Pluto transits your Eighth House of sex and money, for about another 20 years. I should add ‘death’ to the Eighth House as it is about binding agreements, until death do us part. Is this also showing up in your natal chart? Ja. You have a stellium in Scorpio, so despite being a Cancer Sun, you are strongly Scorpio and have that level of intensity, passion and extremism which the poets write about and the Go-Betweens made records about. Scorpions mate in a promenade a deux, you see. Yet, you would not be yourself if you were not going to lock yourself into that kind of dance with a new person. It will be offered to you. There are a chain of dates in the years ahead when that will be the case; I should have thought Jupiter in Scorpio would be the big one, as it will be in your solar Fifth House of sex and romance, and in your natal Eighth House, as described above. Don’t sit around waiting for it, get on with your life, but it will happen.
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Hi Jessica, I’m a sun taurus 7th house with venus in aries in 6th house. I’m involved with a complex married woman. I’d love to meet a single woman who can inspire me. when will my future partner come into my life? how shall we meet? I work in an old man’s pub. favourable response please. thank you so much. Bailey
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You use a different astrology system to me. You are a Sun Taurus who has Venus in Aries and are committing adultery. You work in a pub. Bailey, much as I’d love to give you what you want to hear, ‘Adultery do not commit, for no good ever comes of it.’ It feels sexy (Venus) to compete and win (Aries) but the karma is terrible. You are beating her husband in the seduction stakes but given your solar chart, you need to set yourself up for something so much better. That opportunity will be here from mid 2027 to mid 2028 and she may have a child or want one.
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Hi, Jessica!
I am a Pisces sun/Libra moon. As you will see I have a few stelliums in Capricorn, Aquarius and Scorpio. I have been divorced for 3 years. I feel like I have been in flux for so long. Can you give me any insight? Thank you!-
Thank you I have answered you elsewhere.
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Hi Jessica,
I’m am a Pisces sun/Libra moon with a Capricorn, Aquarius and Scorpio stellium.i have been divorced for 3 years and have been in flux. I feel like my marriage annihilated me to the point where I really can’t see men the same way or relationships.
Could you give me any insight on if I will find someone or is my path more friendships and groups and learning to love myself?-
As a Pisces Sun the most repetitive, stuck partnership and dating cycle in 19 years ends at the close of July 2026. You will have the biggest and best opportunities in 12 years for a new partnership when Jupiter transits Virgo, so mid 2027 to mid 2028. Can’t say fairer than that. Your Scorpio stellium is behind the marriage that annihilated you. Get to know your Scorpio stellium; your Eighth House; your Scorpio side. The Tarot and Oracles here can help you. The former is free to use and The Modern I Ching oracle is also free. Start digging.
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Hello Jessica, I was just wondering if you were going to give us a little something on this summer of love you’ve been speaking of.
I love the way you provided us a way through the madness that’s apparat by these comments. Thank you for that!
I’ve been waiting for some time to meet someone new. I know I’m an Aquarian and Part 2 is next week, but could please take a peek at my chart ? The only long term (23 years married) relationship I’ve had is a Leo? I know he’s ill.-
Thanks very much. Yes, Part Two appears next week, but looking at your chart, you are overdue for big opportunities for a new partnership and these will be there from June 30 2026 until July 26, 2027. That’s your Aquarius solar chart. As this time-frame also includes the South Node in Leo, you are owed good karma from your partnerships (of any sort) 18-19 years before and by July 2027 you will realise there is a clear case of being owed/rewarded with a new person. Perhaps with your old partner. I would suspect that’s it, but let’s allow for somebody new, to be fair. At 9, 19 and 25 Leo, you have three strong chart factors in your Fifth House of courtship, the bedroom and a younger generation. Jupiter going over those, and the South Node too, will remind you that you can dust off the royal bedchamber, open the windows and let something new in. You don’t say if you have children or not, but a younger generation is often part of the story, for whatever reason.
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Hey Jessica. I’m learning prediction and reading my own transits the way you have talked about in your articles. I just wanted to ask, do you focus primarily on conjunctions and transit planets moving through stelliums? Or are other major aspects also important to you? Thanks a bunch!
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It’s great you are learning prediction. Conjunctions and stelliums are always first; the other aspects are second. For example, you have a stellium in Cancer so you ‘live’ in your Fourth House of home, family, real estate, household, home town and homeland. It’s who you are. You also have Apollo at 22 Cancer. He is sextile Chiron at 22 Virgo in your Sixth House of wellbeing and workload. When transiting Jupiter goes to 22 Cancer from May 21-26 you will see a rare oportunity for growth and overdue improvement. I hope you can see I am using your stellium here; the conjunction; also the aspects. Jupiter will automatically sextile your natal Chiron as he passes through. Put all that into plain English and there is an enormous open door with your people or your place on May 21-26 (or close to it; we allow a one-degree orb). This automatically helps you take the lead, as you were born to do (Apollo). It also allows you to experiment with what you can get away with (Chiron) in terms of your workload and wellbeing. Loads of people would tell you, you’ll move to a new place with a gym nearby. But there are so many ways this could show up for you. Enjoy it.
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Jessica,
I am a Sun Aries woman. Admittedly, dating is not a big priority in my life as I have no planets in my 7th house and am usually busy with work. Also, my past relationships haven’t been that great, so jumping into the dating game is not high on my list. However, as much as I say that, sometimes, it would be nice to have some companionship in my life. Are there any changes on my horizon?
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Thanks Caroline. The Moon at 4 Leo and Ops at 24 Leo suggests the opportunity to open the door to the bedchamber with somebody new, as soon as Jupiter goes to 4 Leo, in July 2026. If this is ongoing then there would be another opportunity for growth and expansion together in October 2026 and again in January 2027 with the final door open in June 2027. Most of these transits involve Ops; you are a practical problem-solver when it comes to close relationships (and the world of children for that matter). It is possible anyone new will have a son or daughter from a previous relationship. Have a look at past relationships and how your Moon and Ops influenced those. The Tarot and Oracles here can be a good short cut.
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I’m dating a Capricorn man born in 1984 who is almost finished with a divorce after 2 years of separation. He is wealthy with 3 kids, and I have an adult daughter who I’ve reconnected with in 2018 after giving her up for adoption. He joint custody and the a tense relationship with his ex-to-be. I’m unemployed and have been looking for work for over a year, so I would move out of state if a job presented itself. We are different religions (he’s Christian, I’m neo – pagan), but we like each other a lot. Is this realistically viable long term?
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Will you marry or be together long term? We start with solar charts. He is in the best cycle for a new partnership in 12 years but it stops on June 30. He is also in the best cycle for separation and divorce in 12 years, but again, it stops on June 30. His three children are the new story in his life, as Chiron (experiments with what is ‘the new possible’) goes into Taurus and his Fifth House of fatherhood on June 19th 2026 and in fact will there, on and off, until 2034. Long time. So he’s up for a punk rock approach to being a dad, or even a step-dad to your daughter. Your being a neo pagan and him being a Christian would fit. Then again, so would quite a lot of scenarios; Chiron encourages us to be mavericks. The other major factor here is Jupiter in his Eighth House of sex and money; partnerships and property. This cycle begins on June 30 2026 and lasts until July 26, 2027. His luck is well and truly in, with his divorce from her. And also with any new marriage or de facto partnership revolving around the bedroom and the bank. So that could be you. Again, it could also be another woman, so we need to be honest about that, despite your enormous affection for each other. What about your chart? You are a Libra with Leo and Libra stelliums. Right time, right place, big challenges, major opportunities, considerable obstacles. It’s a mix. You won’t know how much of a mix until you go into July, August when both your charts are triggered at once. That Chiron in Taurus cycle, which is all about maverick experiments (for him, as a father) for you – is about the money and the home. The will and the legacy which is rewritten, if it goes that far. You will have Chiron going into your solar Eighth House shortly and it is there, as you have seen, for many years. You also have Saturn and Neptune in Aries in your Seventh House of partnership; Neptune will be there for many years, long after 2028 when Saturn and all his waiting games and tests of patience has gone. So for you, yes, the stage is set for a truly epic relationship which will ultimately bear no resemblance to the real world, and give you an escape from it. It could easily be him by the look of it. Have a look at the Tarot and Oracles to see if they back up that timing. These transits also show up in your birth chart, saying much the same thing.
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Hi Jessica,
I’m a Gemini Sun, Sagittarius Moon, and Cancer Rising currently going through one of the most emotionally intense periods of my life.
I am involved in an ongoing custody dispute regarding my daughters after a social worker’s report that I strongly feel misrepresented me and heavily emphasized statements made by my ex-husband’s current partner, while minimizing my side of the story and my relationship with my children. The situation is now escalating legally, and I am fighting back with attorneys and a forensic psychologist involved.
My ex-husband is a Cancer Sun, Taurus Moon, Virgo Rising. His current partner is a Capricorn Sun with an Aries Moon. I don’t know the rest of her chart.
At the same time, my own life has been transforming dramatically emotionally, physically, spiritually, and publicly. I feel as though my identity as a mother, woman, and individual is being tested and redefined all at once.
Lately I’ve noticed many of your forecasts mentioning:
– Pluto retrograde in Aquarius bringing reversals involving groups, reputation, and power dynamics
– Uranus in Gemini radically changing identity, appearance, and public perception
– themes of anchoring, reinvention, freedom, and reclaiming personal authorityMy question is:
Astrologically, does this look like a temporary period of conflict and distortion before truth and balance are restored, or does my chart suggest that I am entering a much larger life restructuring that permanently changes my role within family and relationships?
And in terms of the dynamic between myself, my ex-husband, and his current partner, do these charts suggest an eventual rebalancing of power and perspective, or a prolonged cycle of struggle and opposition?
Thank you for your insight and for the work you do.
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I’m sorry you are going through this with your daughters, former husband and his current partner. You need to know if it’s going to pass. You are a Sun Gemini woman and I have your chart here. Okay, so we start with your solar (Sun Sign) chart. You have family karma here which stops in the final week of July. The South Node in Virgo is passing through your Fourth House of relatives and the extended family circle. This always brings stuck, repetitive situations which do not change, no matter what you say and do. Hvorfor? Because it encourages you to change your personality and attitude, to feel better about it. And doing that makes you a better human. You become more tolerant. More philosophical. Wiser. In any case the loop ends when the South Node is out of Virgo, July 28th. After that you are long overdue for big improvements and new opportunities with the family and that starts the following year, when Jupiter goes into Virgo, July 27th 2027 until August 24th 2028. A nice long time of the best and greatest astrology trends in 12 years. You don’t say if your former husband’s partner is foreign. If she is, there is a power issue which can only be solved by your willpower and a control question which can only be solved by your self-control. Or is he foreign? I say this because Pluto is in your solar Ninth House of other nationalities. And Pluto is always about who and what dominates. Setting that aside, you are indeed in an important cycle for religion, therapy, counselling, spirituality, psychics, meditation, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, sleep, dreams, psychology and the inner life. One phase stopped in the last week of April. Another one begins (Chiron in Taurus in the solar Twelfth House) on June 19th 2026. It goes for years. So you will need plenty of time alone to experiment with what is possible for your soul, psyche and spirit. You will want to know what you can get away with and the answer is – quite a lot. I’m going to file a feature on Chiron in Taurus shortly and address Gemini so do read it. Okay, we now know which areas of your Gemini chart are triggered. The Fourth House, possibly the Ninth House and certainly the Twelfth House. Are they also under transit in your birth chart? Ja. You were born with the North Node at 13 Cancer in the Fourth House of family. This is past life karma and you, your husband, your daughters and possibly this woman – have been here before. Saturn goes to 13 Aries backwards and forwards in a long cycle that ends in March 2027. This creates Saturn square natal North Node, but also a T-Square as of course Saturn is automatically square the South Node in your chart at 13 Capricorn. Take your time, go slow, be patient and this traffic jam in your chart will stop. As I’ve mentioned, the repetition stops in the final week of July, but this Saturn challenge requires a waiting game. Saturn himself at 15 Libra in your Seventh House of divorce, separation and marriage is pretty close. So transiting Saturn, in this same time-frame, will oppose natal Saturn. Again, the message is to slow down, accept what you cannot change (we all have Saturn in our chart somewhere and it is always about capital R Reality) and understand that this will pass. March-April 2027 and you know this is absolutely over with him on every level. You will also have completed karma from at least one past life. You made soul contracts in your life between lives, no matter how demanding and difficult, and have returned to complete them. You have nothing in your Twelfth House natally so privately, this is not an issue about therapy (or anything else, like seeing a psychic, or meditating, or going to church). It’s a public cycle. It’s not actually that important. What you have here is a Fourth House matter and to other people, the revolving door stops in late July; privately, for you, things take longer than that, but it does end and you will get through it. Use the Tarot and Oracles on my website and follow the steps to use your natural E.S.P. to help guide you. As love triangles are common with Vesta I also thought I’d check Vesta in your chart. She is at 23 Aquarius trine Pluto at 24 Libra. Vesta is in Aquarius in the Eleventh House of friends and groups. This is where you have long been faced with one male, two+ female situations which commonly involve strong emotions; a need to compete; intense feelings (even if the issue is trivial). This would have been the case since childhood. The trine hooks Vesta into Pluto (power and control issues) in your Seventh House of husbands. Just knowing this tells me that you need to be really cautious about mixing friends with the situation. His friends or your friends. And also – any group – a club, team, society and so on. You really don’t want Vesta and Pluto together like this, at a time like this. It is very common when couples split for friends to take sides, I know, but you don’t need it. You will be very happy with a new partner eventually when Jupiter goes into Libra and your Seventh House, if you want that. And the situation with your children will ease considerably when Jupiter goes into Leo and your Fifth House, from June 30th – we don’t know why yet – but there will be solutions for them and you, into the middle of 2027.
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Hello Jessica, thank you for everything you put out!!
I was curious if you could give me insight if i will find someone in 2026-2027- i have been divorced for 3 years and it was bad. i have full custody of an 8 year old. I desire it but it doesn’t seem to be in the cards for my life long path.
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I’m afraid you are not logged in, so I can’t see your astrology birth chart to reply. The Tarot and Modern I Ching are free to use here in the meantime and are very good.
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Thank you so much for your thoughtful, compassionate, and prompt response. Your insights are always immensely valued and appreciated.
I’ve been a loyal subscriber for years now and have learned so much, not only from the guidance you’ve personally given me, but also from reading your replies to other members over time.
So again, thank you sincerely for your insight, your kindness, and the care you put into your work. It truly means a lot.
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Hi Jessica, thank you for all your fascinating articles over the years. I’m wondering if you would be able to see any windows ahead in my love life and in particular with a gemini guy born in 1981 that I’ve known for a very long time now. Thanks so much
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Friendship is his focus in 2026, 2027, not so much partnership. If you are a friend to him and can sustain a friendship, especially as part of a mutual wider circle of social ties, that would be far more important to him. You have a Leo stellium in your Fifth House of dating and the bedroom, though. And lucky Jupiter is going into Leo from June 30th until July 26th/27th next year. So there will be one solution or opportunity after another. It’s up to you. Do you want the Gemini or do you want somebody to marry or have children/stepchildren with?
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Greetings, Jessica. You hit it straight on for this Aries woman. This blog post definitely described my sibling situation and other aspects going on in my life. Would definitely be a heavy conversation for some, especially if I were chatting up a New Romantic interest.
I’m currently seeing a man whose birth chart shows the following:Sun Sagittarius at 13 degrees, Virgo moon at 28 degrees, and Virgo ascending at 26 degrees.
Any insights you might offer are greatly appreciated. Thank you so much.-
Thank you for confirming the psychic astrology take on your sign. The Sagittarius man just started the most unpredictable partnership cycle of his life; it began as April ended and will be with him past 2030. Plenty of chopping and changing, either with the same woman, or more than one. Every time the past is cut away, he becomes more independent. Every time makes or accepts a change, he finds more freedom. The key issue is fatherhood and if he is already a father; wants to be a a father (or very much does not). And it’s the same with being a stepfather too. This has been on his mind since the start of this year, no matter if he mentions it or not. From mid 2026 to mid 2027 you have a rare opportunity to make so much more of children in your life. So you have choices too, with or without this man.
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Hi Jessica! Leo sun here and the fear of being disempowered or controlled in a relationship is bang on. My ex was born in a different country but the person I just started seeing again recently (Cancer sun) and we are still figuring out what it is has no foreign connection I’m aware of. There’s also a couple of past connections I think of but am not in touch with any longer that live abroad but may be relocating near me (Taurus and Gemini)… Any insight for me on how best to manage my dating life and capitalize on the upcoming Jupiter transit appreciated. Thanks!
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The power and control issues with a partner remain for many years; it may be with the same person, or more than one man. Pluto in your solar Seventh House is here to stay and if you can summon up huge amounts of willpower and self-control, you will ultimately end up as one half of a power couple. If this is the Cancer Sun man then the issue for him will be the money, house or apartment. Similar question; who has the upper hand, how can you share ‘hand’ (as George Costanza would say) and how do you avoid playing top dog games, based on the finances or real estate? The Jupiter transit will go a long way to solving things; there are plenty of solutions and opportunities here, primarily for the bedroom, rather than anything beyond that. You don’t say if either of you has children or wants them, but that will arise by mid 2027 at the absolute latest, should you still be together.
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Hello Jessica,
Thank for this article right before summer. I’m a Leo and I’m not falling in love easily. I can’t really explain why, but when it happens usually it’s for a long time (it happened maybe 2 times in my lifetime )
Right now I have my eyes on a Capricorn, the connection is there but he’s really really hard to catch…Any advice? ( I can wait next week for the Capricorn part) . Thank you in advance for your time-
The answer to the Capricorn is children and fatherhood. You don’t say if you have children or if he does, or if either of you want them. You will find out why later this year and again in 2027 if you two end up together. It’s similar for you, as your Sun in Leo in the Fifth House of motherhood will be crossed by Jupiter (opportunity) between the middle of this year and next year. Sometimes the question is not a son or daughter, but a godchild, niece, nephew or wider connection to children and younger people; it is, however, absolutely central.
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I am more Libra then Scorpio and I wonder will 2026 destiny bring me gentle Gigant that my stars suggest. What do you think Jessica? I feel he is coming. I feel new job is coming in ethics and compliance. The one you mention about Saturn and right and wrong. I applied on April 6 post closed April 18. Right now I am still under construction and getting ready for interview when they call. Thank you for your feedback. Thank you for this article. I think May and the rest of the year will change my life.
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A gentle Gigant? I am not sure what horoscope would ever show you that! (Not even sure what that is; you must mean gentle giant). If you are talking about a new sexual relationship, you are a Scorpio woman with a Libra stellium and will find a stuck, repetitive dating situation stops in the final week of July. Yes, you will be offered a new partner in 2026, 2027 and this person will be a maverick; what Dennis Elwell would have called a gadfly or heretic. The relationship itself poses the question if you can possibly get away with something like this. More conventional and traditional people would be quite confronted, but if you do succeed, you would move the goalposts in some way.
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HI Jessica,
Thank you for your insight on Tarot. No doubt it is stranger than fiction. We are born 46 days apart in the same year. What can you tell me about our charts looking ahead?My Sun Leo, His Sun Libra
My Scorpio Rising — His Virgo Rising
My Aquarius Moon — His Virgo Rising
My Mercury in Virgo — His in Virgo
My Venus in Virgo — His in Libra
My Mars in Virgo — His in Libra
My Jupiter in Taurus — His in Gemini
My Saturn in Leo — His in Leo
My Uranus in Scorpio — His in Scorpio
My Pluto in Libra — His in Libra-
You always look for common Leo and Libra patterns when comparing two sexual partners, if the issue is purely about the relationship. If it’s also about the money, house or apartment, Scorpio patterns matter more; if starting a family is central, and also blending both families, that’s Cancer. The Rising Sign is irrelevant; it’s just your appearance and people often get it wrong, because the birth time is fudged. If you both have Saturn in Leo that’s quite difficult for the bedroom. It’s difficult for parenthood. You don’t say if either of you has children or wants them. You also share Uranus in Scorpio so a joint bank account, split rent or combined mortgage will always be an unpredictable matter for both of you. Freedom and independence will be terribly important. You may not even want to fully commit on that level as you also both have Pluto in Libra and want total control of a partnership. So there are ways through this but they may not be a conventional marriage with 2.5 children and a white picket fence.
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Hi Jessica,
I have to say, I have asked you questions before and I am starting to live a very solid prediction you made about my career – thank you for that! I tend to be confused about my relationship. It seemed much stronger at one time and he claims it still is. I’m a libra he is a taurus, something is nagging me but can’t put my finger on it. No big issues, either just intuition or me overthinking. I pulled some cards. What have my relationships been about so far, hex 49. What is my current relationship about, Hex 35. What will happen w/in a year, Hex 11. How does my boyfriend see me as whole, Hex 21. If you don’t mind, how would you read that? And should I be alert to a change, and would it be good, bad, or neither? I’ve not had the best relationship luck so I’m always a bit on edge. Thanks so much.-
Thank you for confirming the psychic astrology prediction came true. You have been looking at The Modern I Ching for answers. The core issue here is children. You don’t say if either of you have them, or can have them (or want them). This doesn’t go away long-term. Until some kind of decision is reached about the role that a son, daughter, niece, nephew or godchild is to play (or even a wider involvement with younger people, like a charity or paid role) it may be hard for you to really feel empowered, or as if you have much control. Early 2027 brings this to your attention.
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Hi Jessica!
I’m a 20+ year old man lonely for a lady. I’m keeping up with the momentum going out, doing courses and being social. My daring mates have girlfriends. When do you think my time will come? I drew Empress Tarot. Will this be my dream come true please? Tak. Dylan-
Lucky you, Dylan. I’m sure you know about The Magic Roundabout. You will be on one, with a woman who likes the good things of life, be they luxurious clothes or comfortable interiors. She has an important evergreen relationship behind her; a son, husband or partner. It’s never quite gone away. She’s intensely feminine. She needs a bit of help with her life, though. I’m sure she would appreciate some practical assistance!
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Hello Jessica,
I’m a sun Libra, moon in Sagittarius and Venus in Scorpio. 40 this year and am wondering if I’ve missed the boat to have children? Am interested in dating a recently divorced Taurus man who has moon in Pisces and Venus in Gemini.-
Motherhood is always the Fifth House, ruled by Leo in your chart. At 17, 28, 29 you have three factors in opposition there; pushing the other way are Aquarius astrology chart patterns in a tug-of-war. So, part of you wants children and part of you does not. The Taurus man is in a repetitive, stuck cycle as a lover and father until the final week of July, when karma from 18-19 years before, stops for him. Have you missed the boat to have children? Not at all. But it could be useful for you to figure out that inner conflict your horoscope shows.
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Thank you Jessica. He has children in their 20’s and I have the feeling he’s all set. I don’t have children and I’m getting really close to the decision that it won’t happen ….Let’s see 🙂
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Hi Jessica I know I have Saturn in Leo and that has certainly played out, this entire house is just blocked for me, even though I have Ops there as well and Proserpina. The last few years particularly with the North node in Aries and now Pisces have been tough. And a bid for a new home as failed as well, in spite of Jupiter in Cancer. Why am I so blocked?
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Okeky dokey, so you have a Leo stellium in the Fifth House, which includes Saturn (always a test) but also a large stellium in Libra in the Seventh House of marriage, divorce, separation and de facto partnership. The Seventh also rules equality between men and women (or a lack of equality which disturbs the balance of the scales). So there is more going on here than just your Fifth House. There is in fact a huge difference between your Fifth and Seventh. In the Fifth you can have one-night-stands, for example, or be chiefly concerned with unwanted pregnancy, or a partner’s unwanted pregnancy (for example) but on a more committed level, if there is a steady relationship or commitment, the Fifth tends to be about the long-term drive to be a parent, or to avoid it. This affects everything else. The Seventh is much more about a legally binding contract between two people and doesn’t necessarily involve issues about parenthood at all. When you say ‘blocked’ there may in fact be aspects with Leo or Libra which suggest inner conflict about men (I presume it’s men you are asking about). You were born with Mars at 16 Cancer in the Fourth House of family, household and real estate and it is at the sharp end of a T-Square with your North Node at 15 Libra in the aforementioned Seventh House and the South Node at 15 Aries in the First House. A T-Square is indeed an internal blockage so you have picked up on that. A T-Square is always tense, tight, tricky and ‘traffic’ which gets jammed within. So the part of you that wants to push hard, be first, compete and win (at home, or over property) is not functioning with the part of you that wants an equal partnership (Libra) and even legal marriage (Libra again). The other jam comes from Aries which is ruled by Mars anyway and is combative, very much about the self, always upfront, front and centre and inclined to butt heads. A very simple answer to dating or even relating and mating, is to avoid living together. Or avoid the idea of blending families. Or mutual real estate investment. That would be the astrological answer. You can ask the Tarot how the T-Square has primarily shown up in your life. That could be useful for you. As for a bid for a new home, Jupiter is not out of your Fourth House yet; he is there until June 30. Solutions and opportunities remain until then in your chart.
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Dear Jessica
I am a sun Virgo from the US who is meeting a Leo, born July 25, 1975 born and living in the UK for a holiday in Italy at the end of June. Your article really resonated with me and I wonder if you could lend some insight? There has been a strong attraction for a long time.
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Well, the Leo will have been through an intense experience with a partner or potential partner in 2023, 2024 and/or 2025 which is why he is single. You may benefit from finding out more about that; the Tarot can usually shed light along with the Oracles if you doubt you will be able to discover the back story directly. Pluto will have presented him with a potential power couple (another person who may have formed quite a strong duet with him; a duet with real clout) but it may be that a powerful rival got in the way. It is also very common for this cycle to produce highly political power struggles between potential partners and for a fair amount of game-playing to go on. So you do need to know more about what did not work out or who did not work out. You end a stuck, recurring, repetitive cycle for relationships in the final days of July, shortly after his birthday. Jupiter in the early degrees of Leo will be in a conjunction with his Sun once he is back from Italy and enjoying the rest of the summer; he is well placed for a summer of love.
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